Our Babies
Luke and Claire
"Welcome to Holland"
By Emily Perl Kingsley, 1987. All rights reserved.
I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."
"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.
The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.Monday, May 30, 2011
On the boat with our flippy floppies
Sunday, May 22, 2011
It has been another fun, relaxing week around the Godinez household. Luke is getting more and more mobile. Now that he figured out he can get around on his own, his new favorite thing to do is head straight for the doggie dishes! He loves to pull around his little train; however, he forgets how fast it moves and manages to bonk himself with it when he's on the tile. As you can tell from the last picture, the little dude wears himself out! Plus, that fourth tooth coming in sure does hurt :( Good thing a snuggle with Daddy makes everything better.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Dallas
Last week I was all geared up for my upcoming trip to our Houston facility for work. Although I do enjoy travelling for work, I was more concerned about the exciting shopping opportunities in Houston during my free time. Alas, they were not ready to proceed with our planned project, so the trip got delayed. No big deal for work, but what to do about my shopping?!?!?
Solution: Dallas!
For once, we had nothing planned for the weekend, and it was simply beautiful outside. Luckily, the neighbors were willing to watch the four-legged babies, so off we went for a weekend of shopping, eating, and baseball in Dallas. Luke, as always, was a fabulous little traveler. We shopped until we dropped, stuffed our faces with delicious Mexican food for dinner and La Madeline for brunch, and went to Luke's first MLB game (Rangers v. Angels)! As you can see from the picture, it was a bit too much excitement to handle, but it was the perfect way to spend the weekend together.
Monday, May 9, 2011
MOBILE BABY
And that's not all folks....
With a mobile baby comes....a waving baby!! Yes, it does not matter if you are a stranger at Target, an old lady behind us at church, a tree, or a pretend figment of his imagination, Luke will wave hello to you. Watch out though, he tends to get distracted and wave at himself, which cracks him up more than you will ever know! Nothing beats trying to conduct a meeting after hours at work with Luke in my arms (because Patrick was flying) as he waved to everyone while I tried to talk. Somehow, I don't think they remember what I said....
Pictures/video to come. Do you know how difficult this is to capture on camera??????
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Dancin' Fool!
About a month ago, the rhythmically gifted (Black) teachers at his school taught him how to dance. You just do a little beat box (those younger than 40 will know what that is, the rest of you just fake it) and he would bounce up and down! He loved it! Then, he started doing it to actual music or people singing! More recently, he has added a new move. He will rock back and forth too! We thought you would enjoy his audition tape to "Dancing with the Starts!"
Pretty awesome.
In other news, Luke is growing up so fast! He has been transitioning to real food! That means that he is eating what we eat at home and cafeteria food at school! He doesn't even use a crib at school either! They have him napping on a mat. Crazy. His new favorite pastime is reading a bedtime story.
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| This story makes my hair stand on end! |
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Does she EVER slow down?
Tonight, she turned in a 15(ish) page paper to her professor.
Not too bad, but what's the big deal you ask?
Well, it was the last paper...in the last class...to finish her Masters Degree! (I'm so proud of her!)
WOW!!! (you declare, even though I can't actually hear you)
But wait, THERE'S MORE!
Last weekend, Luke turned 1!
We just got back from Jamaica!
We just put landscaping, a gazebo, and a shed in our backyard!
Melissa went on her first out of town trip for work!
Grandma Godinez came to visit!
I got a new instructor rating at work!
And much more!
| Grandma couldn't figure out why she could hear Baby Luke, but just couldn't seem to find him! |
| What can I say, he loves his pinwheel! |
| Baby Luke is telling you all about his friend, Pablo the Penguin! |
| "I CAN TAKE A BETTER PICTURE THAN YOU CAN! GIVE ME THE CAMERA!" |
| Daddy imparting great wisdom on his son... |
| Baby Luke having a great time! |
So you see, Dear Reader, that's probably why we haven't been writing much on the blog as of late. But tonight...tonight things are different. Melissa is surfing the internet and watching The Wonder Years reruns. Ralphie is curled up next to her to keep his nose warm, and Sophie is snuggled up in her blanket on the floor.
It's a good night.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Little Dude!
Now......
You have no trouble eating.....
You LOVE to be snuggled.....
We love you, and here's a look at the first year of your life.
